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When children, even young children, become aware that their mothers and fathers are talking about separation or divorce, they can only interpret and understand those events in the context of their own experience. They cannot not take it personally, and invariably they feel that they are in some way responsible, though they do not or cannot articulate those feelings. What Children Worry About:Where will my dog live? Who will pick me up from school? Can I still have a birthday party and can I keep my presents? Can I still see my friends? What Children are Thinking: Something life threatening is happening to my family. What did I do wrong? If it weren't for me this wouldn’t be happening. This is my fault. I am bad. My mom and dad are mad at me. Myths about Childhood or Stories We Tell Ourselves: Children don't understand. Children are resilient. Children get over it. Childhood is the happiest time of life. |
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